It all seemed to be in good fun, but out of the blue, her in-laws argued that she doxed them with a certain piece of promotional material for an upcoming show, and sued her in 2009. Interestingly, their lawsuit is what made their names, locations and whole deal extremely public. More interestingly still, Croonquist’s husband’s law firm represented her, and a court ultimately ruled in her favor.
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The Modern Spin: Mothers-in-Law Are Nice, Actually!
You may have noticed that mother-in-law jokes aren’t all that common these days. It’s not that comedians have decided to lay off of women, and it’s certainly not that “cancel culture has come for it.”
What’s changed since the mid-20th century is that families are increasingly venturing out of their parental homesteads again. Grandparental childcare has become more structured, more elective and more rewarding for both parties. We seem to like mothers-in-law now, and you can see it in our comedy.
One of the most popular quotes from I Think You Should Leave revolves around the absurdity of hating your mother-in-law:
“You probably love your mother-in-law.”
“I actually do.”
“Oh my god! He admit it!”
English comedian John Thomson has this cheeky non-joke: “My mother-in-law — lovely woman, helped us buy our house.”
Maybe the best example, though, is a performance piece by Tig Notaro. She has an extremely healthy relationship with her mother-in-law, Carol, who once cracked herself up beyond the point of comprehensibility while trying to tell a joke.
Before even hearing the punchline, Notaro invited her to perform it at one of her shows. Here’s how it went: “I got this great idea. I thought, this is a very funny joke. First, I have to explain, though. It’s kind of like a play on words. Well, (Notaro’s wife) Stephanie said, it’s like that Lou Gehrig joke, where it’s, ‘Gee, what are the odds of Lou Gehrig getting Lou Gehrig’s disease?’ It’s that kind of joke. So I’m driving along and it came to me about — the only problem is it’s about somebody that’s not really in the news — well, never really in the news anymore. Okay, so the joke is about Paris Hilton. See what I mean? Like, Paris Hilton’s dead now. So yeah, it’s about Paris Hilton. And so this is the joke. Who would name their kid… (several seconds of uncontrollable laughter) Who would name their kid after a hotel chain?”